Ben: We sort of imploded, I imploded it, because I don't know if I can be with her forever. Why is everybody so in love, and just so sure? Matt: We are not. I have doubts about Amanda all the time.We are not perfect. Me and Amanda getting married, we are just going for it. We don't know. Ben: So what's the point? Matt: Because it's fun. It's a really fun party, and it's nice to tell someone that you are in, and to say it to their face in front of the room full of people, and it's nice to hear it back. Right now you're kind of like that guy in an ice-cream store who samples every single flavor befre he picks one, and that sucks. Ben: But how can I know what's best though? Matt: You won't. Ben: When you and Mom split, it really messed me up. And I just decided I didn't want to be like you guys. I just wanted to find the one and hang on to her forever. And now I'm completely alone. And you're just moving on to your next family. Chuck: I'm sorry that your mother and I splitting up hurt you so much. What she and I had was great. I'd be nothing if I hadn't met her, and I wouldn't have you. And buddy, as long as I'm alive, you will never be alone. Ben's best man speech on Chuck & Gina's wedding: Hey eveyone. Thanks for coming! I'm Ben, and most of you here probably know me as Chuck's son. And if you're wondering why I'm up here giving his best man speech, so am I. Truth is, I put up a pretty big stink about all this. I just didn't want to do it. To me, a third marriage was ill-advised. I mean hell even a second one was hard to swallow. I just didn't get it. I believe in things like fate and love at first sight, that once you found the one, that was the ballgame.But the truth is, if you spend your whole life looking for perfect, you wind up with nothing. See there are many innings to this ballgame, and I don't think love is about chance run-ins or cute accidents. It's simpler than that. It's about finding someone you want to hang out with, as long as humanly possible and just trying not to screw it up. But you will mess up. No matter how hard you try, you'll get in your own way. But if you can learn from your mistakes, you might just build something even better. So I'd like to raise a glass. Gina, Dad, congratulations!